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[The
Articles of Indignation: Article 8]
“Spiritual
Pornography” Propaganda: Kip McKean’s Ruse for Hiding Corruption and Silencing
Victims
By
Daniel Berg June 25, 2015
The
ICC does a good job as portraying those who leave their organization as "casualties
in a spiritual war",
rather
than victims of abuse. They also quote John 15:2 when speaking to their
congregation about those who leave; saying that God is “pruning” his church and
making it better. Those who speak out against this abuse are character
assassinated (see my character assassination article) and slandered by the ICC
leaders who want to hide the damage that is being done.
Usually
converts last only about two to three years in the ICC before they become
disgusted with the hypocrisy and end up leaving. Most people become aware of
the corruption long before they actually leave, but they are compelled to stay
because of the psychological shackles that have been put on them by the ICC
leaders. They know that something is wrong, they know that the converts they
are bringing into the church become sheep for the slaughter, but they redeem
their actions in their own minds because since they are technically saving
souls they reason that God will pardon the abuse that is being done (my next
article, The ICC’s Universal Excuse: “We are Evangelizing the World”, clears up
this issue). Jesse was one such member who found himself in this
psychological trap, and here is part of his account:
We were bothered
by it, but we brushed it aside, made excuses, diminished, and dismissed the
concerns of others and of our own minds. We told ourselves nobody is perfect.
We told ourselves, it is not so bad. We told ourselves, for better or worse,
this is the Kingdom of God. And these things were reinforced by the teaching
and preaching which told us that if we left this church, we would, in effect,
be leaving God. That little fear tactic worked wonders to silence our inner
critic. We started thinking that it was our problem, that we weren't submissive
enough, that we weren't trusting God enough, that we were having a bad
attitude.
But part of us
knew that was total misguided rules taught by men. Eventually, that part of us
grew stronger than the voices which told us to excuse and ignore what we knew
was wrong.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B2e5slY-B8ZiWDFLYnZqczAta0k/view?usp=sharing
Please
note that not all viewpoints expressed in his full account coincide with the
views of this article, however, his account shows how oppressively controlled
these members feel and there are many like him who realize that something is
wrong but are too afraid to speak up.
We
see here once again the way the ICC traps their members into thinking that
their salvation depends on them staying in their church, and this becomes an
effective tool for control. Leaving the organization means eternal damnation,
unless you return, which they call being “restored”. Some people who leave are
unable to escape this psychological trap and return, and I have even seen some
weak-minded people repeatedly leave and then return in a vicious cycle of abuse
and psychological coercion. For this latter case the individual seems to be
mentally troubled to a noticeable degree, but the ICC leaders insist that this
damage was caused by them leaving in the first place and that they had been
corrupted by the world. I find it hard to argue with this last statement since
some members actually do go back to drug use after leaving the ICC’s chemical
recovery program, but I think that the abuse in the ICC may have acted as a
catalyst in this regard. Also many people who leave the ICC will engage in acts
of sin thinking; "well I'm going to hell anyway", because of the
abusive psychological influence this organization had on them that they cannot
be saved unless they come back to the organization. This is why many will
dejectedly return to the ICC after leaving, to be abused once again.
An
example of the psychological trauma that this organization causes can be seen
from the account of [anonymous], who was part of the Portland church:
“Everything
changed so radically and people pushed for power and I was in the cross hairs...
I now suffer from PTSD [Post Traumatic Stress Disorder] and have to undergo intense therapy.”
Even
to this day, [he/she] still receives therapy to help [her/him] cope with what [he/she]
experienced in Portland (which I described in my other article, The ICC’s Psychological Control System,
using this experience as a specific example). After talking with [her/him] some
more [he/she] expressed to me the fear that this condition causes:
I'm getting
better now. I have issues like most do when they leave a situation like that. I
have PTSD and can't open the front door when someone knocks without fear that
they they'll be behind it. I go to therapy and am getting through it. I have my
faith and it is strong but to them I am a fall away.
Because
of the fear that PTSD causes, [she/he] wishes to remain anonymous (both in name
and gender, which is why I’m using the [he/she] terms). “Fall away” is the term
that the ICC uses toward people who leave, it is a phrase that is short for
saying that these people have “fallen away” from God and lost their salvation.
I would commend this person for letting me use their account for this article;
such accounts can be hard to come by since many such people are afraid to speak
up because they have been so hurt and traumatized by their experiences that
they do not wish to recall it, much less write about it and allow it to be
featured in an article.
The
ICC aggressively extracts as much money and productivity as they can out of
their members until they crash. The end result is a tragic one as many ICC
members suffer from mental trauma so great that they need to seek therapy and
some even go to psychological recovery centers designed to help people with the
trauma caused by cult-like organizations. The ICC does a good job of
desensitizing their members to the word “cult”, however, it is apparent that
this is an abusive and corrupt organization. The ICC needs to stop comparing
itself to the first century Christians who were called a “cult” by the Roman
officials and Pharisees; the ICC with its abusive methods is nothing like the
first century Church.
A
man named Karl W. was stolen from and lied to by Victor Senior Gonzalez and
then threatened by both Vic Sr. and Kip McKean. His is a very long and
disturbing account, and so I’ll let the man himself tell the story by providing
a link to his blog which details the events that transpired:
http://www.exicc.org/2012/11/lying-stealing-and-threats-part-i.html
A
part of his account that significantly shows the state of the leadership is the
part right after he describes how Victor Sr. Gonzalez stole money from him, and
then Vic’s reaction when Karl W. said that he was going to take the matter to
Kip:
I got mad and
told him I was going to go talk to his boss, Kip. VGSr (Victor Gonzalez
Sr.) freaked out and threatened me,
telling me that if I talked to Kip about it that not only would our
relationship be over, he would no longer train or associate with me in any way,
but that he would use his position of power to try to make my life as difficult
and miserable as possible in any way that he could.
…
I let VGSr steal
from me, lie to me, and then bully and threaten me into silence.
And by remaining
silent, I probably enabled him to do the same thing to others.
At
a later time Karl W. eventually did take the matter to Kip and was reimbursed
only for 1/3 of the money, but then both Kip and Vic threatened Karl, so taking
this matter to the highest level of leadership didn’t solve very much.
(Karl
W. asked me not to show his last name because he wishes not to be associated
with this organization in the eyes of potential employers, which is
understandable given what this organization has become, although you guys in
the ICC know exactly which Karl W. I am talking about here).
I
will give a few more details about Karl W.’s situation in another article, but
I encourage those reading this to see his blog to get the full story (and if
you saw how the ICC leaders attacked Karl on his Facebook page to try to
distort this story it is clear that they were trying to cover it up). I didn’t
even know that this incident had occurred until a little over two years later.
There were already so many people leaving the Church and being labeled as
“divisive” that if this incident had caused an increase to the number of people
leaving, then it was hardly noticeable. Either that or Kip McKean’s propaganda
team in the upper leadership had done a good job of covering it up.
I remember visiting the East Region
under the leadership of Vic Sr. two years after this incident, and I find it no
coincidence that all the shepherds had fled the region. In the two weeks I
spent in this region I was surprised to find that the entirety of the church
was comprised of young college students and those who were about that age. I
couldn’t find anyone who had been in the church longer than two years (besides
the leader and maybe a couple others whom I forgot to ask). This church had
existed for at least 5 years, where were the original members? Even if many of
them had gone on mission teams or had been sent to other regions, there should
have been people who would have stayed due to being small business owners or
who had careers that allowed them to support the church, but there were no such
people to be found. To make matters more awkward, during Vic Sr.’s leave of
absence he gave control of the church to a member who had only been converted
four months prior. Now I don’t want to be down on anybody because of their
youth, he was a great guy from what I could tell. But from what rationale would
cause the leader to give control over to someone who was at least six times
less experienced than everyone else? This is especially unnerving when I am
talking about an “experience” with a maximum scale of two years. Even though I
would not hear about the Karl W. incident until a few months later, it was
clear to me that something had destroyed this region, and the fact that the
leadership of the church was given to someone who had only been a Christian for
four months during Vic Sr.’s leave of absence was also cause to suspect that
something wasn’t right. After reading Karl W.’s account of Vic Sr.’s abusive
behavior and corruption, now it made sense to me why the older members had
left.
Many
such accounts of corruption and the victims of the ICC’s abuse can be found in
forums all over the internet (read with caution). At first I was told that
these people were just “being deceived due to their own bitterness” (yes, every
person who spoke against the ICC was automatically and baselessly labeled as
“deceived”). I remember a couple years
ago when a region leader was teaching the first principle studies and told us
that after the Discipleship study that we need to pick up the pace that we do
bible studies with an individual to about two studies a week or else they may
“see all the bad stuff on the internet about us”. This did not make any sense to me and I asked
“why should we be worried about stuff written on the internet if we are
supposed to be calling out members to cross-check all their information (to be
“Bereans” in ICC lingo), if the things said about us are merely emotional
outbursts of bitterness with no valid argument then why should we even be
worried about this?” If this was the Movement of God, then what did we have to
be afraid of? Why should we rush people through the Bible studies? Indeed, we should be wary of the things that
we read on the internet, but the sheer number of accounts of the ICC’s
corruption as well as the fact that these accounts are in agreement with each
other (and some even citing very specific examples of corruption) is cause for
alarm. These accounts even include ex-ICC leaders who apologized for how they
unknowingly manipulated people (and hence why I keep most ICC leaders anonymous
in my articles; I don’t want to incriminate people who were merely under
psychological influence).
Kip
McKean now calls any such accounts “spiritual pornography” and tells members to
stay away from these writings. Basically this term is used to discourage
members from reading anything critical about his Church and covering their ears
and blocking their eyes from seeing the abuse going on around them. The ICC
leaders will tell you “As a mature Christian you wouldn’t look at pornography
would you? Then neither should you look at spiritual
pornography.” This “spiritual pornography” of course refers to any criticisms
against the ICC. So it’s not okay for anyone to criticize Kip’s organization
but it’s okay for him to slander the ICOC? When people speak against the ICC
the leaders tell their members that this is “evil persecution” against the
“church of God”. Do they still dare to call themselves the “church of God” in
the midst of all the people that they have hurt and abused? “For it is better, if it is the will of God,
to suffer for doing good than for doing evil.” –1 Peter 3:17.
Here
is an example of the reasoning that Kip uses when he speaks about this
“spiritual pornography”:
“You know, there is a proliferation — literally,
that’s the word — of not only anti-cult material, little packets, but booklets,
books, videos — Preston Shepperd calls this stuff “spiritual pornography“.
(amen) You say, well why? Well, what was
the reason you first opened Playboy Magazine? You were curious. You know, a lot
of us as Christians, we don’t understand the schemes of Satan. How did Satan
get Eve? By her curiosity. Just twisting a few things around. Even the world
says curiosity kills the cat. Some of you say, “well, hold it, if you’re strong
enough — if there isn’t anything wrong in this stuff, then why shouldn’t I read
these anti-Boston materials?” Well, let me ask you this. You’ve been a
Christian for a while and prayerfully you’re strong in the Lord. Why can’t you
just open a Playboy and just see how it goes? Let me tell you something. I’ve
been a Christian for 17 years. I don’t dare get close to one! (amen) And you
shouldn’t get close to that spiritual pornography. The thing that’s driving you
there is curiosity. That is Satan. Get it out of the house!” McKean – They Hated the Dreamer, 1989
Yes,
let’s completely ignore the anguished cries of these abused and hurting people
because that is what “mature Christians” do I guess. Kip’s statements on
“spiritual pornography” are on display at the www.spiritualpornography.com website which show how he tries to mislead
the congregation with these statements.
They also try to relate these materials to being a
“virus” that will corrupt the “faith” of the members if they dare to look at
such material. They use this fear-inducing image to dissuade them from
conducting further research about the history of their organization. The ICC
leadership even attempts to deter members from looking at anti-ICOC material that
is dated back to the time during which Kip McKean was leading that
organization, because the same abusive policies which oppressed their former
organization back then have now been replicated in their new organization.
Regarding Jesse's account very similar was said by a former ICOC leader "What began with the power of love turned into the love of power"
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